Why We Built SPIL — A New Men's Dating Coach App (Live Tomorrow 🚀)

Hey Product Hunt 👋 I'm Derik, founder of SPIL – the no-fluff men's dating coach app that is launching on Product Hunt tomorrow.

Why we built this:

Too many men today are struggling silently with dating.

– They don’t know what to say

– They overthink every move

– They're burned out from swiping

– Or they’ve simply lost confidence

Most dating advice is either cringe, unrealistic, or doesn’t stick.

What SPIL does differently:

We combine structure, psychology, and daily social challenges that build real-world dating confidence.

It’s not about pickup lines or chasing women.

It’s about becoming the kind of man women want to date.

Think: practical exercises, mindset shifts, and communication training—all from your phone.

Who this is for:

Men (18-50+) who want to:

– Improve their dating life

– Become better at communication

– Break out of isolation or overthinking

– Attract the kind of women they actually want

Why we’re here on Product Hunt:

We’d love honest feedback from this community.

Whether you're in the target audience, a builder, or just curious—what resonates? What feels off? What would you want to see more of?

Check us out on IOS Apple App Store

And thank you for giving us a minute of your time 🙏

Let’s make dating suck less—for men who are ready to show up differently.